Love and Stuff

Remember me!

2012-01-18T22:08:00.002+02:00

Happy New Year all! Yes I am seriously late, but a lack of internet cap will do that to you!

Every New Year’s I’d say “this is going to be MY year” but it’s never quite happened, but I can truly say that 2011 was in fact my year. It was crazy, mad, stressful, exciting, filled with highs, and well, just, perfect.

First there was the getting engaged on Christmas day 2010, and so the mad ride called planning a wedding started. In between there was some Coldplay, Kings of Leon, Knox’s first birthday, the most amazing bachelorette, kitchen tea and finally the big wedding. I wore the gorgeous dress, I had the pretty make up and I got the dance till you drop party I always hoped for, and now I’ve got a bag full of memories that will last me a lifetime. (There were also many tears and stressful decision making throughout the year, which I will not miss)

Unfortunately the husband had to get back to work asap so we went on a very quick but amazing mini Honeymoon in Plettenberg Bay. We spent time at the beach, had seafood AND went to the elephant park where I got to feed and walk with the big dudes. It was such an awesome experience. And then the post wedding blues hit me. And it hit me hard. Everyday I’d fixate on something new. I had so many shoulda moment. I should have worn a flower wreath as planned , I should have relaxed more during the photo shoot, I should have spent more time with my parents throughout the night. Thoughts like this drove me insane and were kind of ruining what was actually a perfect night. And it really was perfect. But I’ve always been an over thinker, over analyser, so I was expecting this to happen. So from now on I’m going to try be more of a live in the moment no regrets kind of a person.

Even though 2011 was a major high and will be pretty hard to beat, I am looking forward to 2012 and the new chapter. I definitely plan on being the most awesomest wife possible.

One year later...

2011-11-30T11:20:00.001+02:00

Last year at this time I was just days away from my AnteriorCruciate Ligament reconstructionsurgery. I actually cannot believe it hasn’t even been a year as it feels likeit happened ages ago, although my scars still look pretty newish.

I spendthe first half of the year training with a physiotherapist and I am so glad Itook the time, and spend the money to go through proper rehab, even though ldid not enjoy running around a rugby field during my lunch hour in 40 degrees.It taught me discipline and kicked of my pre wedding training routine that Iwould probably have left to the very end when it was actually too late to makea difference.

I stillfeel a bit awkward when running. It’s like my one leg is heavier than the otherand I usually end up looking like an idiot as I over compensate in the liftingof the ‘heavier’ leg. Also jumping rope, which I use to love doing, has turnedinto a comedy show. I still guard my knee a lot and always think before Iexecute any jump/run move, but I know this will get better with time. I reallywant to start playing Netball again, but at the moment I am just too terrified.Maybe next year?

Eventhough my knee is usually really stiff the day after a night of dancing, youcan bet your bottom that’s not stopping me from getting my groove on at thewedding. I’ll be the one in the white dress doing the Bart Simpson, orsomething equally embarrassing.

2 Guys, 5 Girls and a Bride!

2011-11-20T19:50:00.001+02:00

The closer I get to the wedding the more I try to take in every moment and experience every small thing to the fullest, and I can honestly say that my Bachelorette party was one of the best nights ever. I giggle like a school girl when I look at the photographs, it is truly a memory I'll cherish forever. For that I have to thank my awesome friends. Two enthusiastic thumbs up for a kick ass night!

Just came to say Hello!

2011-09-27T16:00:00.001+02:00

Things have been a bit quiet around here and for those ofyou not following me on Twitter: I am still alive and well! I’m just a little blogged-out.

With work stress, planning the wedding, trying to get to gymregularly so I can have the ideal bride to be figure and finding quality timewith the fiancé, I knew something had to give. Spending precious time after a day’schores in front of the computer doing a blog post just felt wrong. But as soon as most of the wedding madnesscalms down, I’m sure my will to blog will return. So, see you soon!

Crystal Wine glasses!

2011-08-17T08:52:00.003+02:00

Last week Tuesday, on the public holiday, we set off to Canal Walk to do our gift registry. I chose Boardmans and the fiancé chose @Home. (Actually I chose Forever New, but apparently being registered there is inappropriate)

The day did not start off well. After going through the whole getting registered part at @Home we took to the rows of goodies with bewildered, not quite sure where to start enthusiasm. Only to find out the scanner was broken. Now I’ve been looking forward to this moment since I saw the first movie bride walking around a shop with black gun like scanner pointing excitedly at pretty things. So when they told me I would have to take a piece of paper and write down all the codes by hand I was seriously disappointed. So we discussed it with the registry lady and told her we would come back over the weekend. The fiancé was now starving and not in a particularly good mood so we took a lunch break.

Boardmans was a lot more successful as I finally got to walk around the shop clicking away at casserole’s all bride-to-be like. It actually went quite quick, except for the 15 minutes it took me to convince the fiancé that the fancy crystal wine glasses were a must. I mean how am I suppose to host an elegant dinner party without them. (Although at this stage our friends are more ‘let’s have a braai’ than ‘Oh wow what a lovely sit down dinner you’ve prepared’)

*Photograph from Jose Villa

Happy Weekend all!

2011-08-12T15:48:00.003+02:00

Flashbacks of a Fool!

2011-08-05T12:08:00.003+02:00

I love kids in outfits like the little Darth Vader in the Passat advertisement. As a little girl I was obsessed with Brakenjan. So for quite some time I insisted on wearing a pair of white Long Johns and a red T-Shirt with a belt. I had pigtails as ears and a stick as a sword.

I really do hope my kids are quirky little dresser uppers!

Have a great weekend all!

Two Oceans and the Adventure dog!

2011-08-01T21:56:00.013+02:00

Once a year (sometimes more) the whole gang get together for a weekend of no stress, drinking games, late nights and lots of eating. I have known most of these people since Pre School and although we all live in and around Stellenbosch it’s often difficult to get the whole group together at once. This past weekend we loaded the cars and head on over to Struisbaai. We were allowed to take Knox with on his first beach weekend and he had a blast. He even got to go to the most Southern point where the Indian Oceans meets the Atlantic.

Aghulhas lighthouse

Wedding dress - Day 2!

2011-07-19T11:19:00.004+02:00

*Dress from Watters.Com

So after Dress shopping day 1, I had a pretty good idea of what worked on my body and what didn’t. I was now content with the idea of taking this knowledge to a designer and having a dress made, but my mom really wanted me to try on dresses at Elizabeth Stockenstrom and so we made an appointment for the Wednesday morning. She gives you 3 options. Rent a dress from her existing collection or have one made to rent or buy.

I had a quick chat with her about the feel of the wedding and showed her the file full of wedding dress pictures that have been ripped out of magazines over the years. She immediately understood what I wanted; picked out 6 dresses from her collection for me to try on, and let me tell you I would happily wear any one of those 6. They are simply gorgeous, fits like a glove and completely comfortable. I finally narrowed it down to 3 favourites. She is now keeping them aside till Thursday when I will try them on again and will need to make my final decision.

I am freaking out a little, because I love all 3. How will I chose?

Wedding dress - Day 1!

2011-07-15T13:32:00.004+02:00

*Claire Pettibone

I have always had this image of me in a Short bodice A-line wedding dress with lots of soft-blow-in-the-wind layers of fabric. I wanted fuss free and understated.
My Mom kept saying a longer fitted bodice would work better as my waist is my best feature (I kept asking ‘What waist?’) And so on Saturday we set of to try on wedding dresses.

First pit stop was a catastrophe. I did not get the - only thin people can shop here memo – and none of the dresses would zip up. The one that did zip up made my boobs look like pancakes. Not cool. So I was close to tears. I feared this all along, looking horrible in everything.
Seriously regretting the Kit Kat from the previous night we set off to the next Bridal pit stop – Bride & Co. So many dresses, so many diamond wearing future brides frantically fitting dress after dress. Where is the Kate Hudson standing on pedestal glowing in Vera Wang with onlookers sipping champagne? Where’s my freaking champagne! So far dress shopping was nothing like in the movies.

Tried on my pretty Grecian A-line dress and looked like I was twice my normal size. I might as well be wearing bag with a bow. Very depressed, I agreed to try on the tight longer length bodice. Voila! I had a waist. Who knew! Suddenly my hips looked smaller, my boobs looked great and I had to admit, once again mom knew best. So I am still doing whimsical/Bohemian understated and fuss free but the style has changed a little bit.

To be continued....

My favourite things!

2011-07-08T13:00:00.003+02:00

Stumbled upon Pride and Prejudice on Mnet the other day, and had to watch it for the umpteenth time. It’s definitely one of my favourites.

I’m not a huge fan of Keira Knightley, but Pride and Prejudice is my favourite book in the whole world, which means I’ll love the movie even if it should star Megan Fox and Jack Black as the main characters. (Please note, this is just to prove my point, do not see this as a challenge extended)

May we love forever!

2011-07-04T13:22:00.004+02:00

Dear Grandpa

When grandma got sick we were all preparing for the worst. Her pain was so bad that we started praying the end would come sooner rather than later. But we thought we still had lots of time with you, thats why it was so hard on everyone when you left us just over a month after grandma. At first I thought your decision to just give up on life was selfish but now I understand that to you life without your best friend and the love of your life was far worse than having to say goodbye to your children and grandchildren. I hope you guys are safe together.

We still miss you every day.

Birthday time in Knoxville!

2011-07-01T21:44:00.001+02:00

My sweet little puppy is now a monster adult as he celebrates his 1 st birthday. Or rather we celebrate and he looks confused as he looks up at me singing happy birthday with a new stuffed toy in hand.

How time flies. It really does feel like yesterday that we drove to Milnerton on a cold winters morning, very excited to choose our little fur bear. And now he lifts his leg when he pees and we are discussing when to start buying big boy food.

*My first day at my new home

* Look at me now!

*I will be making a donation in his name to Barking Mad as a birthday gift. You are more than welcome to do the same. (That's me asking very sweetly)

Meet my Maid of Honour!

2011-06-26T20:18:00.010+02:00

The past weekend the fiancé asked his best friend if he would be his Best man at the wedding rounding up the Bridal Party to a full house. The fiancé will have a Best Man and 1 Groomsmen (my brother). Then there will be a flower girl, 2 bridesmaids (cousins) and my Best Man/Maid of honour. Yes I am going all Patrick Dempsey, Michelle Monaghan in getting my best friend, a guy, to be my maid of honour.

We have been friends since the age of five. We have been through missing front teeth and too big ears, caravan vacations, school crushes, first kisses, University and being roommates together. Except for the fiancé, he is the only other man who could ever live with me and survive. He is the one that watch Twilight and Vampire Diaries with me when the fiancé refuses. The one that rolls his eyes when the fiancé and I get too lovey-dovey reminding me that nobody loves a PDA’er. We are all about having fun and goofing around.

I am so excited to have him be a part of my big day.

Winter Wellies!

2011-06-23T15:59:00.005+02:00

To me Wellington boots fall in the same category as Uggs. I don’t think they are particularly pretty but they are so damn comfy.

Wellies have been made popular by KateMoss when sporting her rock chick at muddy music concert look. Brides have also been wearing them as a fun winter wedding prop, and on days like today they are quite handy. So I must admit I got very excited when I saw the black Wellies with pink polka dots at Pep Stores (yes I said Pep Stores) Best part they are very reasonably priced. As most PeP things are. Maybe it’s worth a look if you are in the market for a pair but not willing to pay a bundle.

*Image found here

Me, you & Knox!

2011-06-22T10:30:00.003+02:00

Some of you may have had a look at our Engagement Shoot when it was posted on our photographers website here.
Thanks again for all the sweet comments and Tweets!

Today there is a few more pic's from our shoot up on Oh Darling Bride, here. Thanks for the feature Monique.

6 Months to go!

2011-06-13T20:33:00.010+02:00

On Friday we officially reached the halfway mark to our wedding day countdown, and I surprised the fiance with a little indoors picnic and a gift. I seriously cannot wait till 10 December.

Give me a break!

2011-06-08T14:56:00.002+02:00

As I do this post all I can think about is Ross yelling "We were on a break" to Rachel. One of my favourite FRIENDS episodes. Well peeps I am taking a little bloggie break at the moment. Should be back in a week!

Happy Weekend all!

2011-06-03T14:57:00.003+02:00

On the home front:

The fiance recently saw a photograph of his oldest brother blowing out candles on his birthday cake. The cake was on the coffee table that now belongs to us. The brother was turning 1 he is now around 35. I guess you can call our coffee table vintage then, and even though I love all things vintage, I think it's time for a new one.

I love this old door as coffee table idea!

*from Cherry Blossom World.Blogspot

Make me pretty!

2011-05-27T14:14:00.001+02:00

I have finally found a Make Up and Hair person for my wedding! Why is this blog worthy news you ask? Well because it has taken me over 2 months to find someone available and not charging me a Gisele Bunchen’s makeup artist’s rates.

Thing is I knew exactly who I wanted for my wedding. I even had 2 backups, just in case. Not that I’d need them because I always get what I want. Surprise, surprise when the email rolled in saying she was already booked. No biggy, my option 2 is equally fabulous. Nope, sorry, also booked! Nine ‘sorry also booked’ later and I was feeling very down in the dumps. People kept suggesting names but no one felt right. You see, although I don’t wear a lot of makeup and would like a very low key look for my wedding I have had a terrible makeup experience in high school which have made me extremely sceptical of all things makeup. It was my Grade 8 Valentines Ball. My mom decided to go all out and booked to have my makeup professionally done. It looked fabulous, ON THE NIGHT, but in all the pictures I was geisha white. Kids peed their pants laughing when the photo’s to order went up on the board, and there I was, the mime. Oh the shame!

The girl I finally picked for my wedding knows my photographer well, is super nice and has a very light foundation hand. I hate caked on foundation.

Ironically all the stress over choosing a makeup person has caused havoc on my skin. All week I’ve been feeling like the troll that should be living under the bridge!

All that shines!

2011-05-24T15:03:00.010+02:00

Let me tell you, planning a wedding (and staying in budget) is hard work. But I am very much looking forward to the next stage - Dress Shopping!

I pretty much have an idea of what I want to look like on the day (that is, not too dinner with the queen-nish) The look definitely includes a pair of really nice earrings.
The short list:

Philippa Green

Ida Elsje

Shelly & Harry Jewellery

Always in my heart!

2011-05-20T13:29:00.004+02:00

What a week! 17 May swings around every year and brings on fresh tears. They say time heals all wounds but they never elaborate on what time frame you’re looking at. 3 Years ago on 17 May after battling cancer we lost a legend of a women and the best grandmother I could have asked for. I still miss her every day, even more now that I’m planning my wedding. She always talked about my wedding day and I know she was praying she’d make it to the day. But I’m sure she’ll be having a glass of champagne in heaven (I have never met a person who could drink as much champagne and be completely fine like my granny)

17 May is also the day I lost a very good and true friend.

Last year we had to say goodbye to our 15 year old Golden Retriever. I still remember all the crying at work in front of the computer the days leading up to it. Getting the sms from mom saying he rode all the way to the vet on the back of the bakkie with the wind in his ears and went happy and peacefully, feels like yesterday. I still get very teary eyed thinking back to the happy face and wagging tail greeting me at the gate every day after school. Knox would have loved the old man.

Growing pains!

2011-05-16T15:16:00.002+02:00

When am I supposed to start seeing myself as a grown up?
I am getting married end of the year and next year I’ll turn 30 (let’s just keep this between us) but my dad still hands me Petrol money when I come to visit?

I always cringe when I see a car with a ‘Twilight Mom’ sticker or I watch E!Entertainment and see the older ladies with a Team Edward T shirt. I’m like “That’s so sad”

Now let’s say I fall pregnant next year and we become the proud parents of a chubby little cabbage patch Baby. I LOVE Twilight, AND I’ll be a mom, so that will make me a Twilight mom. Kind of puts the ‘sad old Twilight mom thing’ into perspective now doesn’t it. Last week my Facebook status was ‘Ian Somerhalder is in SA’ which was the same status update displayed on my 16 year old cousins Facebook (only hers had a lot more smiley’s and was written –small letter, capital letter, small letter, capital letter...)

Am I now the sad person who doesn’t realize they are too old to like Vampire Diaries and Twilight? Should I be moving on to ‘Antique Roadshow’ on BBC and Harrison Ford?

So I ask you, when are you suppose to stop quoting Chandler from FRIENDS, pretending to be Blair by wearing a head band or referring to Bradley Cooper ‘as my husband’ and be a responsible grown up that won’t make 19 year olds cringe.

Pleated skirt love!

2011-05-11T10:24:00.003+02:00

The perfect outfit!

See more fantastic outfit posts from New York fashionista Lucy here...

Sneak Peak!

2011-05-05T11:01:00.004+02:00

At first I thought an Engagement session is unnecessary and a little over indulgent. You will have hundreds of pretty wedding pictures why do an engagement shoot. But then after looking at wedding after wedding on blogs I realized just how nervous I was about our wedding photographs, and a friend suggested we do the shoot.

And I am so glad we did. I would advice all brides to drag the fiancé out for an e-session. Getting to meet, and get to know how our photographer works have put the nerves to rest. We had such a lovely day with her and I just know she will fit in perfect with the vibe of the big day and will do a great job.

I always find it hard to look at photographs of myself, but the fiancé and Knox looks perfect, so here they are: Our E-session

Back to work!

2011-05-03T08:39:00.002+02:00

I’m alive! Yes I know things have been very quiet around here but don’t fear all’s well and normal blogging should resume from this week on.

You see the culprit in the Love and Stuff absence was the public holidays and the little mini break I took, more than a week of sleeping late and eating way too much. Total bliss!

I actually had a long list of ‘To Do’s’ including wedding, medical and admin stuff and to say I ticked off half of the tasks on the list would be a lie. I was totally and completely unproductive. I did however get up from the coach long enough to blow my entire pay check on a shopping spree and went to see No strings Attached with the fiancé. Oh and obviously I spend the whole of Friday watching the Royal wedding, cause how could you not, it was simply gorgeous.

So, here’s to the first day back at work, gym and that stupid healthy eating plan. Man this is going to suck!

Bunny Chow!

2011-04-21T08:06:00.003+02:00

It’s Easter time!

The fiancé’s parents invited mine to join them at their holiday house near Langebaan for Easter weekend. I am very excited but also just a little stress. The families have done lunch and dinners but never a whole weekend. Hope all goes well. I dont want a Meet the Fockers situation, please.

And with all the public holidays next week I decided to take the in between work days off, so I have over a week off holiday bliss ahead. Add copious amounts of Easter eggs and chick flicks and you’ve got one happy camper.

Anyways, enjoy the Easter bunny hunt, time off, and without sounding to preachy please don’t forget what this weekend is all about.

Happy Easter weekend all!

Its called an e-session!

2011-04-19T08:17:00.003+02:00

Its D day for our engagement shoot! I booked it months ago and never really stressed about it because it felt ages away...Well it’s here, and I am nervous galore! I’ve got my outfit planned, I got the props ready, it’s just a shirt for the fiancé and a good brush through for Knox and we are good to go. Yes, Knox will be joining us on the shoot. I don’t know who’s more stressed by this, me or the photographer. Knox is definitely in his wilful teenage years. He usually loves the camera, but these days he’s only interested in things he can eat or rip to shreds. So, wish us luck!

Try something new...

2011-04-13T10:14:00.002+02:00

When you think Creature of Habit, a picture of me should be popping into your head right about now. I am ruler of the kingdom of creatures of habit. I love a routine, I love knowing what to order where, which shop to visit for what... I DON’T HANDLE CHANGES WELL!

This is most evident when it comes to my Hairdresser history. When I find someone who works, I stick by them. I use to drive back to my home town (about 1hour 15min drive) while at University to visit my old hairdresser because I was too scared to try a new one. Then when I finally mustered up the courage it was a gigantic flop and my Chinese bob turned out more Indian tepee. I looked a mess, so my aunt rushed me off to her hairdresser. All he could do to save it was go short, very short, and so he gave me the best haircut I have ever had. Compliments a plenty! Just a shame he could never quite recreate that master piece. But needless to say he became my hairdresser of choice. I stuck by him, driving to Somerset Wes (about 15 min) every time I needed a cut.

But then recently I noticed the hair Salon situated right at the gate of our Estate. How convenient having someone right there at home. And they are open till 7pm so no more going on Saturdays. So last night I broke my stick to what you know rule and tried out the more convenient route. And, well, the salon is simply gorgeous, the hairdresser is sweet, it’s cheaper than my usual place, but best of all the chairs at the wash basin is a huge vibrating massage chair. Sold!

So what about the cut? Well I’m quite happy except for the dye job that came out a little darker than I wanted and I don’t know if it’s just the light hitting it funny but it seems a bit patchy. But it should fade and blend with the first wash (I hope)

The awkward question when going to the hair salon is always: How much do you tip the Shampoo girl? And do I include this with my payment or slip it to her afterwards?

With Flowers in her hair...

2011-04-08T12:16:00.003+02:00

Wedding planning is going great and I am much more relaxed than when I started (my mom seriously feared for her life in that first month of planning as I was bridezilla deluxe) Most of the big things like venue, photographer, DJ and caterer have been booked. Now the fun things like choosing a menu, flowers and decor start. And then there’s dress shopping. I am so kiddie in a candy shop excited for dress shopping. I’ll probably only start with the dress in June/July but I’ve got a sort of idea of what I want. I’m just completely torn between doing the traditional veil or a pretty flower crown.

*from Whichgoose

*Claire Pettibone Veil

My favourite things....

2011-04-05T15:36:00.005+02:00

*from here

Hottest music, books, movies, boys and all the rest of *My Favourite Things...

The return of the denim shirt - I bought a very reasonably priced winner at the Pick n Pay clothing store. I wore it with a floral dress to work on Friday, and then paired it with black skinny jean and a black top for Friday night. Perfect!

Wedding Planning – Although there’s a lot of stress involved I get so excited with every task I get to tick of knowing my perfect day is shaping up to be, well, perfect.

Kit Kats – As mentioned on Twitter, I am now in a Kit Kat phase. I crave them all the time. That and those white candy coated Easter eggs. Yumm!

Loving Young Blood by The Naked And Famous. Such a cool song!

Spartacus – I am a little obsessed with this show, and completely devastated by the news that Andy Whitfield had to pull out of the show due to his cancer returning. Really hope he’ll be okay.

Blooming Pretty!

2011-04-01T10:32:00.007+02:00

For wedding flowers I was thinking Roses, Peonies and maybe Tulips. Never ever did Hydrangeas cross my mind. But they have been popping up on wedding blogs more and more and I have to admit I kinda love it.

*Images Style Me Pretty

Hey, it's okay, the Glamour way!

2011-03-30T21:01:00.004+02:00

My house is cluttered with stacks of magazines, from the living room, bed room to bathroom. I have tried cutting down on the amount I buy since I just don’t have time to read them all, but the magazine I refuse to give up is Glamour Magazine. I just love the fit in your handbag sized magazine, and as mentioned before the first thing I read when opening the magazine is the short feature ‘HEY, IT’S OKAY’

So, here’s my very own Hey, it’s Okay... List!

...to consider Carrot cake or a Banana loaf a healthy snack. It’s got veggies and fruit in it, right?

...to chat up a storm on Facebook, Twitter or BBM, but have nothing to say to each other when coming face to face. Some people just gel better from a distance.

...to say you just don’t earn enough to have a savings or retirement fund but somehow you are able to afford the latest from Country Road.

...To not buy a piece of clothes you really like and that looks gorgeous on, because it’s a bigger size than what you normally wear (remember a Mr Price Medium and Woolworths medium are definitely not the same thing)

...to reward yourself with a giant piece of chocolate cake after being told “Wow you look great, have you lost weight” So what if you haven’t, at least you look it.

I love wedding Blogs!

2011-03-28T08:59:00.002+02:00

Click on badge to see my Guest Post! Thank you so much Monique for the feature on Oh Darling Bride!

Lets start the DIY!

2011-03-23T20:55:00.006+02:00

Over the past weekend we kicked off the getting-wedding-ready project by making the first official purchase towards the big day. So far all the money spent was on service provider deposits, this was the first actual bought for wedding thing I could hold in my hand, and man was it exciting. Soon I’ll be putting my new Elna to good use turning the material into pillows that will be scattered on chairs in the ceremony area.

Some of the colours that will be used in my wedding.

Then just a quick thank you to everyone who commented on my previous post, I do appreciate the support. I really have ‘met’ some great people in blogland!

I'm just saying...

2011-03-17T16:41:00.004+02:00

I think I might have lost my will to blog. I sit in front of my computer and there’s just nothing. Not an inkling of creativity not a whisper of a word. Is this the end of Love and Stuff? Please say it isn’t so! (Gosh I’m such a drama queen)

Anyways...

I guess it’s all the wedding stuff making it a bit difficult to focus on anything but. Who knew getting married in December would prove such a difficult task. If I hear one more vendor say - Ooh, eeh December you say? Wow! *Sigh* that’s a really busy month for me - I will cry. I thought people did Christmas in December, not weddings.

In other news; I have been working really hard with my Physiotherapist to get my knee and all leg muscles involved back to proper working order after the ACL repair surgery I had end of last year. Man is its hard work. She really pushes me to the point of wanting to rip of my own leg and throw it at her (once again with the drama). But I must admit I do feel fabulous after a training session and I think my clothes are starting to hang a little loose. Then again, with the amount I eat after a workout I can’t really imagine me losing weight.

But, enough about me! What’s new with you?

*Pic found here

My favourite kinda friend!

2011-03-16T15:45:00.008+02:00

I really do think there’s a special place in heaven reserved for dogs. As a child my favourite movie was ‘All dogs go to heaven’. I love my dog Knox to the point of it being irritating to friends. Yes, I am one of those people who post pictures of my dog on Facebook or spend 10 minutes on telling a friend how he snores while sleeping. Some people might see that as sad, but frankly my dear I don’t give a damn. So when my brother emailed me these images I just had to share.

*Please support Barking Mad by joining their Facebook page. Or donate to your local SPCA!

Smile for the camera!

2011-03-14T16:07:00.006+02:00

So, our engagement shoot with our fabulous wedding photographer is booked for April. I must admit I am freaking out a little. I get terribly awkward and giggly in front of a camera, especially when with the fiancé. And these days you get such masterpiece engagement shoots, that I am feeling the pressure. I have been checking out engagement shoots on wedding and photographers blogs, looking to ‘borrow’ some inspiration. I absolutely love these photographs by Australian photographer Darren from Ck Metro Photography as featured on my favourite wedding blog Green Wedding Shoes

Any cool ideas for our shoot? Suggestions welcome (I am begging here) *for more from the shoot: Green Wedding Shoes

Knox Update: Then & Now!

2011-03-02T21:17:00.007+02:00

Then...

On my way to my new home -

Now...

The awkward teenage years -

One of these days!

2011-03-01T09:09:00.003+02:00

I cannot believe its March! It’s true what they said about time passing quicker the older you get. It’s a little depressing knowing I’m speeding towards old age. Oh well...

Anyways, so this past weekend I went to my first Design Indaba. I was a little nervous because I was planning on meeting one of my Twitter/blog friends, and fabulous jewellery designer Genevieve Motley. I have never done the blogger meet up thing before so to me this was crazy scary. What if she thought I was thinner, cooler, more sophisticated than the rambling idiot I usually turn into in such situation? But Gen was a total sweetie and it was actually a cool experience, so I might just go to the next bloggers party.

The jewellery section at Design Indaba was amazing I saw about ten things I really, really wanted but alas, I was still awaiting the monthly pay check and spending was not an option.

I lost my heart on a Shelly & Harry Coco ring. I have had many day dreams about this ring since trying it on. I have already planned my savings strategy and I am sure someday soon one of these beauties will be all mine. (One can dream, right.)

*Image from Shelly & Harry

Oscar Favourite!

2011-02-28T09:00:00.003+02:00

Mila Kunis in Elie Saab

*Image from In Style

I want Candy!

2011-02-24T16:40:00.003+02:00

I am having one of those ‘please just let me eat’ kinda weeks, which is not good since I am suppose to be eating healthy and losing weight. I refuse to look like an over puffed up meringue on my wedding day. But all I can think of is cake! It’s especially bad on the days I see the physio and she goes all Hitler on my ass. Yesterday during our training session I promise I came this close *shows teeny tiny gap with fingers* to crying.

So I am begging you, through huge mouth full’s of Steers, any dieting tips you would like to share?

*Pic from I Heart it

I want what I want!

2011-02-18T14:07:00.006+02:00

Choosing the perfect venue for your wedding is probably the hardest thing to do throughout the planning stage. We are so spoilt for choice, especially in the Western Cape with its many wine farms and beach venues.

I had a very specific look in mind and a list of non negotiable criteria that definitely shrunk my options to a select few.

I wanted...

...it to feel like it was being held in my parent’s back yard. It had to be homey, relaxed. Venues always say “it is your big day and we will do whatever to ensure it is exactly what you want” and then they pull out the list of rules that’s set in stone. No thanks!

* I love Stellenbosch and its many gorgeous wine estates, but I always knew I’m not one for a winefarm wedding.

* No cut of time. I don’t get how they expect you to spend so much money on this one day and then ask you to be out by midnight. I have people coming all the way from the UK and Johannesburg and I want them to feel it was money well spent. I want people to dance till they are all danced out, and then I want them to sit outside on the grass, looking at the sunrise, drinking some leftover wine (and hopefully discussing the gorgeous wedding)

* I always dreamed of having a Bedouin tent. So basically all I needed in a venue was a river/lake and some grass.

* There had to be accommodation at the venue. I want no drunk driving and the next morning everyone can join the picnic brunch.

* I want pretty white-dress-wedding-doggie photographs, so Knox had to be allowed to attend.

Simple as that! (or so I thought)

So then, how will I describe the venue I finally chose? It feels like coming home.

I Love...

2011-02-18T08:57:00.004+02:00

...everything about this girl.

(found on Modern Hepburn Tumblr)

*For more check out her blog Karlas Closet. (Thanks for the link @Miss Moss)

Seeing red!

2011-02-15T20:13:00.004+02:00

This post is a little late but...

I hope you all had a fantastic Valentines Day.
I had my fair share of chocolate and champagne on our Valentines Date at Kirstenbosch garden. The fiancé put together a scrumptious picnic basket and took me to see the band Zebra & Giraffe.

Now that the heart chocolate time is over, I am gearing up for bunnies and Easter eggs. I love me some white candy coated chocolate eggs.
Talking about Easter can someone please pull the handbrake on this year, time is just going way to fast.

So what did you guys do on Valentines Day?

I vote Lea Michele!

2011-02-14T14:32:00.005+02:00

I absolutely love Lea Michele in a Emilio Pucci dress at this years Grammy Awards.

*Images from Just Jared

Save the Date!

2011-02-09T20:38:00.006+02:00

I wanted to get our Save the Dates out as soon as possible since December is quite a jam-packed month for everyone and I want to make sure that people had ample warning so that there’s no ‘sorry we can’t make it’s’.

The Save the Dates had to be quick and easy since most of my free time was spent venue hunting, and cheap cause in the end the invites are the actual big deal.

You all know by now that I love my Polaroid’s, so this is what we came up with...

The Picture...

A magnet strip for the fridge...

Envelope, and

Voila!

Welcoming a new friend!

2011-02-07T20:52:00.003+02:00

This post should have been up ages ago, but I got a little side tracked with all the wedding talk.

I have always wanted to be able to make my own clothes, so my parents got me my very own pretty pink Elna sewing machine for Christmas. Unfortunately I didn’t pay much attention in school when they taught us needlework, knitting and embroidery cause I couldn’t stand the teacher, but my mom showed me the basics of how to work Elna and the rest I’ll learn with time.
I made room for her in a corner in our house underneath the boyfriends powerboat photograph.
As soon as I have time I’ll pretty up my workspace. I’m very excited to try on my first home made dress.

Red Heart!

2011-02-01T10:21:00.002+02:00

February already? How’d that happen?

So, it’s the love month! Yes I adore Valentine’s day and proud of it. I cannot stand people who bitch about how it’s over commercialised. If you are too cheap to buy the one you love a teeny tiny heart chocolate and throw a little extra love out there then go sit in the corner you old grump.

Hope you all have a fabulous love filled February!

*Image by I heart! (I think)*

My favourite things!

2011-01-27T16:40:00.003+02:00

Knox - Still at the top of my list. He just keeps getting cuter. This morning while doing my makeup I heard this loud fart like noise. Knowing it wasn’t me I looked around confused and saw the little fur face looking at me sheepishly. If he could talk he would have said “It slipped out. Promise”

Vampire Diaries – I have up to Season 2 Episode 11 and then no more. Please can someone give me a status update on Episode 12 and put me out of my misery.

Woolworth’s bags and shoes – After going through a bit of a shoe dry spell the last 2 years, they have hit back with more pretty shoes than my fragile budget can handle.

Glaceau Vitamin Water – That is until someone told me it has 8 tablespoons of sugar in. Now it’s kept for special days only.

My Bling – I have always dreamed of owning diamonds, and am thus completely and utterly smitten with my engagement ring. Like Miss Monroe said: Diamonds are a girl’s best friend!

A little bit of Greece!

2011-01-25T21:28:00.008+02:00

This past weekend we headed out to the future In law's holiday house in the Nature Reserve across from Langebaan on the West Coast.

I absolutely love spending time there! It's the best place to relax and forget about your worries.

Trying on some boys shoes!

Cougar Town!

2011-01-24T09:05:00.003+02:00

Happy Birthday to the Fiance!

From today till 21 September I lose my Cougar Status as we share a few months at the same age. I so love having a toy boy *winks*

Finding Never Neverland!

2011-01-20T21:36:00.003+02:00

I apologize if it seems like all I talk about is wedding stuff, but quite honestly it has taken over my life. Since I am an absolute Woza December junky, getting married in December was an obvious choice. Everybody kept telling me ‘oh awesome, that leaves you with more than enough time to plan’ NOT AT ALL! I was in a complete state on Tuesday when most of my favourite photographers replied with a ‘Sorry already booked for December’

Apparently December is one of the busiest wedding months after February and March. So with this in mind I realized that I don’t really have time to drive around from one venue to the next. I had to move fast. This resulted in me being over stressed and showing serious bridezilla signs.
I was looking for a Malgas (as blogged about here) just closer to home. I wanted a venue that would give my wedding that feel of being in your parent’s backyard; relaxed, intimate and homey. I didn’t want them to be strict about cut of times since I wanted my guests to sit around drinking wine and chatting long after the music has stopped and maybe even see the sun come up. I wanted to be able to be there the days before the wedding during set up (without being shoo’d away) and I wanted them to be pet friendly cause I want Knox at the ceremony and on my wedding photographs. There must also be accommodation since I wanted everyone to sleep over and join us for brunch the next morning.

I found this at the very first venue we went to look at. After looking at 2 more I told my mom I already lost my heart on the first one and that we are probably wasting our time. So now I have a venue, and because they had no other bookings for December (yet) I could move my date to suit the photographer I wanted. Perfect!

Comfy Sunday's!

2011-01-17T21:34:00.011+02:00

My mom and aunts are busy cleaning out the last bit of stuff out of my grandparents place, and as my aunt searched for something in my grandmother’s closet I spotted a bit of leather from under some old tins with letters. At first I thought it was a clutch bag but then realized it’s an old cheque book cover. The leather is old, soft and worn in. I absolutely love it. I am thinking of maybe sewing a pocket into the inside and turning it into more of a clutch wallet type bag.

I love the fact that the boyfriend is now stocking Genevieve Motley jewellery in his surf shop, as I am currently obsessed with her stuff. I have built up a pretty nice collection, from earrings, rings to necklaces and find myself wearing one of the pieces almost daily.

Big Decisions!

2011-01-14T15:23:00.003+02:00

My uncle and aunt have this fantastic ‘back to basics’ little holiday house in Malgas next to the Breede River about 30km from Swellendam. With no Television, a gas stove and geyser it is nothing fancy, but I absolutely adore spending time there. The house is situated a top a little hill with a huge piece of grass stretching down all the way to the jetty, and the river. The grass is where most of the touchies, volleyball and boule take place over summer holidays and also our main source of exercise as we walk back and forth between the jetty and the house every time we need to fetch some more drinks or snacks.

This is where I always dreamed of getting married, in a pretty white Bedouin tent surrounded by close family and friends.

But my mother is not to taken with this idea. And unfortunately she has a point...

We will have to rent extra toilets, a generator; parking will have to be carefully planned, as well as food preparations. Accommodation for all the guest s will be needed as it would be impossible to take on the surrounding dirt roads of the area after too much champagne. What we save in venue hire rates we will more than make up for in putting together an infrastructure for the wedding.

Thing is, what makes Malgas so special is the fact that it’s the place I feel closest to my grandparents. I can still see grandma sitting at the jetty champagne glass and watermelon in hand, or grandpa dancing on the patio when the local farm workers stop by on Christmas eve to play us one or two songs on their banjos and harmonica’s. Having the wedding there would be like having them at the wedding.

So the problem is, should I find something similar closer to home that would make organizing (and paying) for the wedding easier, or should I stick to what I want and just secretly feed my mother with calming pills before she collapse from stress. Decisions, decisions...

My Fashion Crush!

2011-01-12T21:31:00.005+02:00

I have always been a huge Drew Barrymore fan. I love how she has this cute image but at the same time she's this very focused and successful business women.

She's the ultimate carefree flower child meets cool rock chic.

Although usually dressed in band T Shirts, boyfriend jeans and Converse, she can also do the Hollywood starlet dressed in designer dresses to perfection.

Talking about Boyfriend Jeans: I bought a very comfy pair at Woolworths a few months ago. It is quite a light shade of denim and to my absolute delight I discovered they now have them in the classic blue jeans colour as well. So bought me another pair. I have learned from past experiences that if you find a pair of jeans that fits you perfectly you should buy them in every colour cause you don't know when next you find such a treasure. There might be years of ill fitting jeans before you stumble onto the next gem.

Holiday Scrapbook!

2011-01-10T21:20:00.010+02:00

I absolutely love December time. The way people start tuning out work stress and get into the holiday spirit. I love how you see more smiles, and chatter in the office as everyone discusses the end of year office function. I love the Christmas presents, family time and days spend on the beach. I love going without make up and not having to pick up a blow dryer.

And as usual this December, although a bit more of a challenge on crutches, did not disappoint.
So here’s a peak at a few of my holiday snapshots.

Bench we got engaged on.

How long till its December again...

The Proposal

2011-01-06T22:07:00.007+02:00

Okay, so by now most of you will know that I got engaged on Christmas day!

I always imagined myself resembling Monica from 'Friends', standing on the balcony shouting “I’M ENGAGED, I’M ENGAGED! I’M GETTING MARRIED, I’M GOING TO BE A WIFE’ for the world to know.

But I was nothing like it.

With the utter happiness comes, dazed, confused, overwhelmed, delight, struggling to get a word out and so much more. I don’t even remember half of the day.

I’ve always told the boyfriend that I don’t need a huge fanfare proposal; sky writing is just not me. (I also stipulated that under no circumstances was he ever to put my ring in food.)

And so on a wooden bench in the small holiday town of Infanta, overlooking a clear blue ocean, the boyfriend went down on one knee and asked me to marry him. It was just the two of us, it was low key, I could see the man in front of me was bursting at the seams with excitement and unconditional love, it was perfect!

Afterwards we drove back to the family holiday house in Malgas where everyone was gathered enjoying the Christmas afternoon sun and as they spotted the ring on my finger all hell broke loose. Between the hugs, the crying from my aunt, a cellphone being pushed in my hand, a lot of photographs and glass after glass of champagne I realised that this is no dream. That I am engaged and that happiness is not descriptive enough a word for what I’m feeling!

Let the venue hunt begin!

Hello 2011!

2010-12-31T15:01:00.004+02:00

Bye 2010...

What a year its been filled with ups and downs, highs and lows.

It was the year that we had to say goodbye to Josh, our beloved family dog. We miss you buddy!
But in came my puppy love, goofy Knox, who filled the hole in our hearts and is adored by all!

It was the year I discovered soccer, and rediscovered my passion for Netball, that led to a ripped anterior knee ligament, and operation, and Christmas on crutches.

But most of all 2010 will always be remembered as the year that I got the best Christmas present ever. An engagement ring!

So here's to a happy, and busy, 2011!

Have fun everyone, and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Naughty or Nice!

2010-12-16T11:37:00.004+02:00

Merry Christmas bloggy friends!

Happy happy Holidays!

2010-12-16T11:33:00.004+02:00

You might notice a lack of posts this week. Why? Well cause I'll be at the beach silly.

Hope you guys are having an awesome December holiday! Almost time for Christmas...

Santa Clause is coming to town!

2010-12-16T10:36:00.002+02:00

Christmas shopping is usually war time in malls, with people running around with scary crazed eyes desperately searching for something within their allocated budget. As the time runs out and they realise they are still empty handed the budget will be pushed to the back of their minds as they grab whatever they can get. So what if you have to eat baked beans the whole of January.

Now add crutches and a post surgery knee to the equation and you’ve got a sure fire way to a Christmas shopping experience from hell.

Yesterday after my physiotherapy appointment, my mom and I decided to make a quick pit stop at the Mall for a bit of last minute Christmas shopping. We should have known that this time of year there’s no such thing as a quick pit stop. Luckily we could get all the cousins, brother and uncles presents from the Boyfriends Surf Shop.

Then it was off to Woolies and Mr Price home for the Aunts and my future in-laws. It didn’t take my mom long to realise that I was holding her back on her speed walk trough the aisles. Next thing I knew she pitched up with a wheel chair. She raced through the shop, barely missing on coming people, knocking my leg on display tables and conveniently (for her) stacking up the packages on my lap. I make it sound horrible but actually we had a really fun time once I got use to it. Although I have to admit for an ex nurse my mom is a terrible wheel chair driver.

Deja vampire!

2010-12-11T14:27:00.004+02:00

Okay, I GET IT!

As mentioned before I was not completely convinced by the whole Twilight thing at first. Vampires, really? Rob Pattinson hot, yeah right, what have you been smoking?
I didn’t get it at all.

I finally caved and gave it a shot, and the word Twihard finally meant something. I suddenly found myself grouped with 14 year old Edward/Rob Pattinson obsessed tweens! The hype, I finally got it!

Then I heard the word Vampire Diaries. A show trying to ride on Twilight’s success, and as a huge Twilight fan I refused to support this. The ‘Edward’ guy in this, played by Paul Wesley isn’t even hot! Why is everyone so taken with him? But while confined to my bed, banged up knee propped up on pillow I decided to give it a shot. And... I get it!

I am obsessed, and I think Paul Wesley is a beyond sexy. What is it with the brooding, loner goodie Vampire boys that makes it so impossible to resist. I finished Season 1 and the boyfriend is under strict instructions to get me Season 2. I just can’t wait for my next Salvatore brothers fix.

I’ll finish this very screaming teenage girl post with this; Damon Salvatore brings out the ‘I love bad boys that I hope are actually good’ side of me I thought I had left behind in University. Doesn’t he just have the best lines?

Thank You!

2010-12-09T14:19:00.004+02:00

Those of you who follow me on Twitter will know that I had a horrible day yesterday and felt very sorry for myself and my little post surgery pork sausage swollen knee. I thought lying around doing nothing while people dote on me all day would be fantastic. Turns out after a few days everybody returns to their busy lives, and you are left behind bored and on crutches. (Except for my awesome mom who is taking such good care of me. Love you to bits!)

Thats why it was such a great surprise and really warmed my heart when I opened my blog reader and saw the "Dearest Elle" post from Jasmin on Jupiter. I love the little Knox lookalike pic and get well note. You Rock!

December love!

2010-12-06T16:06:00.004+02:00

To describe the amount of stress and trepidation I felt before my knee surgery Thursday morning would be impossible. Most of Thursday and Friday is actually a complete blur, but I do remember opening my eyes for the first time after surgery in the recovery room not thinking holy moly I’m alive, BUT damn I could do with some Cream Soda. Weird, I know.

In the past couple of days I’ve come to realise that hospital food isn’t as bad as everyone says, that I am more scared of a bed pan than I am of spiders, and that I hate being dependent on others.
I have also watched copious amounts of Gossip Girl and got so frustrated with Little J that I got very close to swearing off Gossip Girl forever. But I have to say the fashion in season 3 is to die for. I Love the black jumpsuit with lace Serena wore to the Trip van der Belt Thanksgiving saga.

For the next week I will be staying with my parents while I recover. My mom has decided that I drink way to much coffee and I am now only allowed coffee in the morning. I can get up and go make my own but have you ever tried to walk on crutches while holding a cup of coffee? Impossible! So if I can find someone to sneak it out of the kitchen to my bedroom I will be forever thankful.

Except for the whole knee surgery and being stuck on crutches for 4 weeks, I am just beyond happy to welcome the month of December. I truly come alive this time of year. And even though long beach walks are out of the question and the boyfriend has to work the whole time, I know this is going to be a good one. Happy December all!

Dear Santa!

2010-12-03T10:15:00.001+02:00

Dear Santa I have been a very good girl, could you please bring me a pair of Wayfarer sunglasses for Christmas?

When this trend made a comeback I hated it. But it has definitely grown on me and now owning one of these is all I can think off. You see I absolutely love my sunglasses. Unlike clothes (especially jeans) they never judge when you gain a few pounds.

Christmas Party Part 2!

2010-11-29T21:31:00.015+02:00

So last week my mom phoned, very excited to tell me about this awesome new shot that she saw at a recent party and that she just had to make them for my Christmas party...

Turned out to be vodka jelly shots! (Thanks mom but they have actually been around for a couple of years) And she definitely wasn’t scared of using the vodka. Ah bless her!

More food, also made by the mom. I’m ashamed to admit but my idea of cooking is popping a Woolworths meal in the microwave.

Last year I had a formal sit down Christmas dinner. This year I wanted a more picnic buffet vibe. So I had chairs around small tables and put out a picnic blanket with huge cushions. Unfortunately Knox claimed the picnic blanket as his own and made it pretty impossible for anyone else to sit there.

The end!

The one where Christmas came early!

2010-11-29T20:17:00.017+02:00

As mentioned countless times before (sorry about that) I am going in for knee surgery on Thursday. This has caused a bit of chaos on my December social calendar and is also the reason I had to move my Christmas party to this past weekend.

I spent the better part of Saturday staring at the sky, praying for it not to rain. In the end we had a beautiful, yet windy, night filled with laughter, food and fairy lights.

Knox and his Christmas bow tie ready to party.

The food...

Dessert!

The pressure of entertaining took its toll.

More party pic's to come...

My silly season starts NOW!

2010-11-25T16:12:00.007+02:00

Year end functions, Christmas parties, New Years parties and just because it’s a hot day braai, yes people it’s almost December, the silly season, my time of year!

Tomorrow we have our Year end function at work. The whole gang will meet up at the office and then depart to the V&A Waterfront where we will be going on a Robben Island tour, followed by a delicious meal at Docks Restaurant at the V&A Waterfront.
This will be followed by a crazed, hysterical night at home, with more hysterics the following day as I try finish everything in time for my annual Christmas party. It is a little early for that, but since I am booked for knee surgery for the 2nd of December meaning I will still be stumbling along on crutches the 11th of December when the party was suppose to happen, it was November or nothing. So I themed the party “The one where Christmas came early”

Last year I had a sit down dinner, this year I wanted something more relaxed, so I am doing a picnic buffet vibe.

Like with my birthday party in September, I once again find myself praying for a rain free afternoon. Pretty Please?!

My fashion Crush!

2010-11-23T16:29:00.008+02:00

I’ve always had a thing for Nicole Richie, even when she was the short, chubby sidekick with the bad hair extensions and the potty mouth in The Simple Life. I was less impressed with the ‘give her a sandwich’ phase but since having the babies she sure has bloomed into a beautiful women. One who has a wardrobe I would kill for (okay not literally but you get the idea)

Boho comfort! My kind of dressing.

This 'add a few pounds' dress would be a no no for us mere mortals, but for Nicole it's a yes!

Weekend in Pictures: This is War!

2010-11-22T19:46:00.011+02:00

Excuse me for a few seconds while I gush like a school girl! The 30 Seconds to Mars show was A.M.A.Z.I.N.G! Jared Leto is hot, sexy, talented, has a great stage personality and I sure would not mind staring into those baby blues every night while he sings me to sleep. Okay back to responsible mature 28 year old!

Seriously I had so much fun. I love all their songs but I am definitely not a hard core fan. I don’t own their CD’s and I felt kind of stupid standing there not even knowing the words to most of the songs.

But I am a huge fan now; soon I will own all their CD’s and most probably know all the word so I can sing along while jetting off to work every morning. Even the boyfriend, who was not excited about the show at all, enjoyed it with lots of praise for Mr Leto.

Dressing for Mars

As a Christmas person I loved the display at Grand West

Tickets!

Rookie mistake, never drink at a concert. The loo line is long!

The Kings and Queens

I just had to...

Book Report!

2010-11-18T20:44:00.012+02:00

Earlier today I sort of had a little mini tirade on the blog. Sorry! I get those days where I’m all say it like it is. Luckily they are few and far between, but they usually get me into trouble. Most people prefer me all sweet and innocent, so the direct and brutally honest me never go down well.

Anyway...

If you follow my blog you probably know I’ve been struggling with Eat, Pray, Love. I know it’s suppose to be a fabulous book, but so far I’m not convinced. So I am taking a bit of an Eat, Pray, Love time out to read about some real life love. You see my mom gave me this book All for love. It’s filled with 37 summaries of the most famous love stories from ancient times to the present day.

Last night I read about Elizabeth 1 and Robert Dudley and Grace Kelly and Prince Rainier (as mentioned before I’m a huge Grace Kelly fan). Tonight I’m reading about Marilyn Monroe and Joe Di Maggio (another one of my favourites).

As a romantic and a lover of biographies and all things history, this book is right up my alley.

A simple Yes or No will do!

2010-11-18T14:37:00.006+02:00

You know what gets my blood boiling? People who don’t RSVP!

If I invite you to a party on which I will be spending lots of money, running around like a crazy person to get everything ready, and then on the night devote myself to assure your every comfort and happiness, the least you can do is let me know if you will or will not be attending.

And let me tell you, RSVP’ing a day before the party does not entitle you to now agree with my statement while praising yourself on your good manners and consideration towards others.

With my birthday party in September I had to constantly remind people to RSVP. It finally got to the point where I made up a final guests list of people who confirmed, thanking them for their consideration, and hit Send to all. This way the ‘friends’ who deemed me not important enough to give a second of their time would know that no last minute show ups will be tolerated.
And so my Christmas party invites have been sent out and once again I find myself begging for RSVP’s. The same people who told me but a month ago that we simply must get together over the holidays have been missing in action after receiving my invitation.

So people please, with party season approaching, remember nothing makes a party planning lady as happy as a simple yes or no.

The waiting game!

2010-11-17T09:38:00.007+02:00

The world is alive with Royal wedding excitement as Kate Middleton and Prince William announced their engagement yesterday. After an eight year relationship, Kate proves that sometimes it can be worthwhile to patiently play the waiting game.

Now I love weddings, and I love diamond so imagine my excitement when I came across this photo gallery on In Style Magazines website.

My favourite royal, Princess Grace Kelly.

The Duchess of Windsor and her 19.77 carat emerald engagement ring.

The Duchess of York with her ruby ring to match her red hair.

And finally the gorgeous Princess Diana with her much talked about sapphire ring, that now adorns the hand of Kate.

*For more visit Instyle.com

Weekend in Pictures: New Beginnings!

2010-11-15T21:36:00.010+02:00

After all the months of planning, and wondering if it will actually happen, the time has come. On Saturday Boost Surf Shop finally opened.

But not without a hiccup or two... With the late hand over of the shop keys, a leaking roof flooding the shop, wrong sized display cases, computer problems and stock not arriving on time I was really starting to think that this was all a big mistake, but the boyfriend stayed level headed and handled the stress like a pro. Unfortunately all this meant there was no time for celebrating our anniversary on Thursday. The boyfriend only got home after 2am.

It’s going to be difficult to adjust to the boyfriends new work schedule; especially with the shop being open Saturday’s till 6pm and Sundays till 2pm. Luckily I have a hard drive loaded with Gossip Girl Season 3 and Vampire Diaries Season 1 (yes, I know I am very behind) and Knox to keep me company.

To the best guy ever!

2010-11-10T21:20:00.010+02:00

Four years ago today the boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend, told me he loved me and changed my life forever (cheesy, I know)

I cannot believe it’s only been 4 years. Somehow it seems like every memory I have involves him.

You have to know my relationship history to fully understand what a big deal a 4 year anniversary is to me. I had absolutely no interest in boys during high school, or rather I was way too shy to deal with any male attention. I got my first kiss and boyfriend beginning second year at University. We dated for 6 months. After that I had 2 or 3 ‘serious’ relationships that lasted anything from 3 weeks to 3 months. I would like a guy, he would like me back and then I would get bored.
I was getting seriously worried. Would I ever find a guy that I could like for more than 6 months?

And then, I did!

4 Years baby, 4 years! Major pat on back!

My take on a Trend!

2010-11-10T09:35:00.007+02:00

Ever since Sienna Miller stepped out in her first waistcoat (vest) ensemble I knew this was a trend I could get on board with. With jeans or a dress, I just loved the way it looked. So I stocked up on black ones, brown ones, denim and pin striped.

And luckily this is no flash in the pan trend. After a few seasons in the lime light it still remains a rocking look.

I'll never forget the day...

2010-11-08T16:05:00.008+02:00

As metioned before, I signed up to be a part of the Betty Bake Blog 'Blog it forward' Project and were assigned two lovely bloggers to do a post on. For more on the project visit Betty...

Today's 'I'll never forget the day...' post was written by sweet blogger Jasmin on Jupiter a South African girl now teaching in Korea.

I'll never forget the day....

I quit my job as an interior decorator to become an art teacher.

Ever watched "The Devil wears Prada"? Well, my story is very similar, except for the fact that designer jeans and couture dresses are replaced by fabrics, furniture and decor launches.

I've always had a passion for decor and after finishing my degree, I decided to chase my dream. So I packed up my bags and moved to the big, bad city. Soon my dream became a reality: I was working as the personal assistant for one of SA's favourite decorators, doing the job I loved, surrounded by pretty fabrics and with access to all the decor sources and magazines I could ever imagine. Life was good and I was climbing the career ladder at a rapid pace. The problem with dreams, though, is that they are not reality..... The reality was that I was changing - I became materialistic, self centered and very unavailable to my family and the people I love. Part of working in a cut-throat industry such as decor, meant that you had to be a certain person - and it was all extremely bitchy. My relationships, my personal life and, ultimately, I was starting to suffer under the pressure of this "dream job". My "passion" was my job now, and a very stressful one at that! I didn't want to even look at decor magazines anymore and going to work left my stomach in a knot.

One morning I woke up and I realised I wasn't happy anymore! I couldn't stop crying and I missed the friends and family I so neglected. I also didn't like the person I was expected to be in this "survival of the fittest" climate. So I got up, drove back to my mommy's, cried my heart out over a cup of tea and then phoned my boss to say that I am not feeling well...and that I am giving one months notice.

Of course I was scared and heartbroken that my "dream" crashed to the floor like that. Also, I did not have a clue what I should do next! My mom suggested that I do my post graduate teaching diploma.....just as a back-up. NO, I didn't want to be a teacher....AT ALLl! Going to school for the rest of my life sounded like a death sentence. But a week into my studies, I was in love....and I haven't looked back yet. I found my dream job in the most unlikeliest of places - and I truly believe that God chose this career path for me, because from the moment that I decided to teach, doors opened!!! Not only do I get to live the life I want - I'm loved and adored by the most amazing little kids and paid to be the nicest, most caring person I could possibly be - my dream of travelling the world has also been enabled by this change of career.

I will always have a passion and love for decor and hope to open my own little decor shop ....someday soon.....but I will have to be a sideline thing because for now, I LOVE BEING A TEACHER!!!

Blog it Forward!

2010-11-08T15:50:00.005+02:00

Please go have a look at the lovely post Jasmin on Jupiter did for the Blog it Forward exchange project. It's all about Me!

Also keep an eye out for my Jasmin on Jupiter "I’ll never forget the day…" post up later today!

I’ll never forget the day…

2010-11-05T11:13:00.006+02:00

I have signed up to be a part of the Betty Bake Blog 'Blog it forward' Project and were assigned two lovely bloggers to do a post on. For more on the project visit Betty...

I asked the girls to title the post "I’ll never forget the day…"
First up Heidi from Farmgirl!

I’ll never forget the day…

I “met” the farmer. 1st of May 2008: At friends, busy telling someone how glad I am that I’ve been single for two years, when my phone rings. The man on the other side asks me how I am.

Me: And who the … are you?

Oh, I am farmer, he says. (His cousin who is a co-worker gave him my number)

The cousin also arranged a blind date and we met in person on 23 May 2008. The next evening we went to a party at the Castle of Good Hope as part of the blind date. Our first kiss was on top of Leerdam. Long story short, I fell head over heels in love and moved to the farm end October 2009. On my birthday, 18 March 2010 he popped the question. And for now we are living happily ever after.

Have a great weekend all!

My favourite things!

2010-11-04T15:49:00.002+02:00

Hottest music, books, movies, boys and all the rest of *My Favourite Things...

...Sunday afternoon forest walks with Knox.
...Bruno Mars ‘Just the way you are’ it might be cheesy, but I love it.
...Boost Surf Shop. I am so proud of what the boyfriend is doing. Take a chance, do what makes you happy. Now if only I can get on that bandwagon.
...Brothers & Sisters is still one of my favourite shows.
...Flowers. I love having fresh flowers in my home.
...after watching the Hangover on MNET a while back, I am once again smitten with Bradley Cooper (just a shame about his bad taste in women. Not a fan of Renee Zellweger)
...Owl jewellery. I am going through a bit of an owl phase. I bought a really nice Owl necklace and earrings from Sass Diva. Next up will be the bunny phase when I receive my Gen Motley stuff. So excited!

The Hunt for Body Suits!

2010-11-01T21:05:00.013+02:00

I was quite the body suit fan as a teen and got really excited when I noticed them popping up in magazines again.

I recently wore one to a wedding, as seen here. But even though it seems they are back in fashion they are still quite difficult to track down in shops. Thus I got very excited when I saw a cute polka dot one from Jay Jay’s advertised in a recent HEAT Magazine. As soon as the salary deposit sms came through I hit Jay Jay’s with gusto. Unfortunately there was no body suit in sight, but I was very impressed with their fun summer collection.

So, who was I wearing this past weekend? Jay Jay’s off course.

White doily top from Jay Jays.

Coral light weight summer jersey. (Big fan of the colour Coral)

Weekend in Pictures!

2010-10-31T22:47:00.016+02:00

Let me just start of with this: Summer is here!

We had perfect weather this weekend and I enjoyed every bit of the sundress wearing sunshine. Since September our weekends have been so jam packed. We were rushing from one place to the next trying to get to all RSVP’d events. There was never time to just switch off and be free to come and go as I pleased. It’s been an exhausting few months.
So this was my first weekend of having the luxury of setting up my own weekend plans, and it was fabulous.

On Saturday the Momster picked me up and we had a fabulous day at Kamersvol Geskenke.

Love this (as seen at Kamersvol) and will now be spending my time looking for an old wooden ladder.

Sunday I had Brunch with the gang at Reyneveld 5. Love their mirror wall.

Showed the best friends the boyfriends surf shop (opening soon)

Had Ice Cream at the Italian Shop.

And finally... Took Knox for a walk in the Stellenbosch forest.

Happy November all!

Book Report!

2010-10-29T12:25:00.003+02:00

2009 was my TWILIGHT awakening year.

I have always been very anti bandwagon, careful of not being swept up by the latest craze. Which is why I rebelled against Twilight at first. That’s also why I have never been a fan of the hyped up, over-priced, bandwagony brand Louis Vuitton, and why I loathe the new uproar about vintage, sweeping the fake vintage loving masses. I have always been the weird one in the group liking the ‘old fashioned’ stuff (as my friends put it). We were a fab select group. Now vintage and antiques have become so main stream that it has cheapened the whole thing (that’s just my humble opinion). Anyways enough about that...

It all started when my best friend’s 14 year old cousin came to visit Twilight book in hand. One day while feeling a bit bored, he picked it up and started reading. Phoned me the next day and said “You have to read Twilight. You will love it. It’s right up your cheesy romance loving alley” And so I did. And I LOVED it.

I was in a complete and utter daze reading whenever I had a spare moment. Before work, during lunch time, before bed, in a commercial breaks during my favourite show, leaving the poor boyfriend to fend for himself. Then it came to the last few pages of Breaking Down and anxiety kicked in. I wanted to know how it will end, but I didn’t want this to be the end. The last book, how could that be?

To fill the void I immediately started reading The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. Strongly recommended by my mom and all over the blogging world. After being in a Vampire daze for months I just couldn’t get stuck in the story. It had its moments, but with this book I actually had to MAKE time for reading. It took me forever to finish. And it was...well, it was okay! I am however excited to see how the movie will turn out.

Now I am reading Eat, Pray, Love. And so far I am terribly annoyed at this self indulgent woman. All the whining gets a bit much. She gets to spend a year abroad, who gets to do that after going through a tough time. Not a lot of us! So forgive me if I don’t feel your pain. I really hope it picks up a bit because at the moment I just can’t take it anymore.

Crazy ramblings on my part! Sorry it’s just that kind of a day.
Have a fab weekend friends!

Thursday Finds!

2010-10-28T15:48:00.011+02:00

Great jewellery by local designer Karin Rae Matthee creator of Dear Rae

I absolutely love these and was a bit disappointed when I saw they are only being stocked in 3 shops in Cape Town. I almost never go to Cape Town (except for Canal Walk and V&A Waterfront). Luckily Dear Rae will be at this year’s Kamersvol Geskenke which I will be attending with the Mom on Saturday. Better get the cash ready!

Rings

Bangles

Dear Rae is stocked at:

LIM - 86 Kloof Street, Gardens

Blink - 71 Regent Road, Seapoint

Misfit - 287 Long Street, Town

Shop fitting Sunday!

2010-10-27T09:31:00.008+02:00

With the opening of the Surf Shop less than 2 weeks away, I haven’t seen much of the boyfriend. So in order for some quality time sacrifices had to be made. I offered up my usually relaxed Sunday to go help the boyfriend paint some stuff. Obviously Knox had to come with and see what will be the source of money for the tons of food he gobbles each month.

Shop watch dog!

Fitting rooms done!

At 14,7 kg the 'pick him up' pics will become less and less.

Setting up shop is hard work!

Week & Weekend in Picture!

2010-10-25T21:59:00.009+02:00

I took some time off at work and spent the whole of last week helping out at the Cape Pioneers Trek Mountain Bike Race. It wasn’t exactly the holiday I had in mind, but I did get some time out of the office in the fresh air, saw some great little towns and made a nice sum of money that will definitely come in handy with Christmas shopping looming ahead. The first day in Mosselbay, George, De Rust, Prince Albert, Calitzdorp and the race finished the Saturday in Oudtshoorn. We however left the Friday afternoon from Calitzdorp because I had a wedding to attend on the Saturday.

Race village at De Rust

My first time in Prince Albert. In love with this tiny little town so full of old school charm.

Saturday wedding at Kleinevalleij Wellington.

Loved her dress.

A wedding outfit!

2010-10-16T23:16:00.010+02:00

We have a wedding in Wellington this weekend. Its high school friends of the boyfriend and I really don’t know all his high school friends that well. So it was important to find something comfortable yet classy to wear. When being introduced and nervous about what to say I don’t want to also be worried about; are my boobs hanging out or is my dress to short. So this is what I’ll be wearing.

Black body suit from Pick 'n Pay clothing

Woolworths knee length skirt...

with embroidery.

My new shoes that I absolutely love.

I'm still a little undecided about the jewellery. It's either...

Vamp it up with statement earings and gold bracelets.

Or girly with pearls and rose ring.

A Mini Mouse moment!

2010-10-16T22:55:00.007+02:00

While looking through my Knox picture file over the weekend trying to find one to email to my mom I discovered these taken more than a month ago. I got the idea after I saw the cute Mini Mouse ears photographs of Lauren from Glossary. So I got some ears and grabbed my favourite co model.

Because it's Pretty!

2010-10-15T14:52:00.006+02:00

Absolutely adore the clutch and bag as seen on Fair Lady's Website...

Foschini - R180

Mr Price - R69.99

Stomach in Chest out by In Style Magazine!

2010-10-15T12:46:00.008+02:00

For an ex model and beauty pageant contestant (oh the shame) I am weirdly terrified of having my photo taken. But then I am a lot heavier than I was back then and immensely self conscious about it. I only feel comfortable when I do it myself, those arm outstretched self portraits, or when I know I have the option of deleting it when I look like a killer whale in too tight jeans.
In Style magazine online did a ‘10 Ways to look better in Pictures’ piece and these were my favourites:

*Instant Tummy Tuck

"Twist your torso, turning one shoulder toward the camera and the other away from it. It makes you look very slender." Follow Miss Diaz’s lead above.

*The drunken pout
“Try to take pictures early, before that third (or fourth or fifth) glass of wine. You're more in control, says Los Angeles makeup artist Troy Jensen. "And no matter how bright the flash is, your eyes will look droopy after drinks”
*The double chin buster
“Push your face forward ever so slightly. It feels absolutely ridiculous when you're doing it, but it makes your face look thinner and hides any sign of a double chin."
*Money makes the world go round
“Cheese is great on pizza, but for pictures, say "money." "The strong e sound makes the corners of your mouth go up . And the crinkles around your eyes make it look like a genuine smile."

-Quoted From In Style Magazine-

For more tips go here... Oh and have a fabulous weekend all!

The Katie Holmes Hair files!

2010-10-13T21:35:00.011+02:00

The Katie Holmes appreciation continues. Not only do I love her style I adore her hair.

For the past 2 almost 3 years I have religiously copied most of her hairstyles. Sometimes succeeding, often failing. I thought it would be easy doing this post, but it was not. Although my hair did resemble hers most of the time, I just couldn’t find the photographic proof of this.

I almost always show up picture in hand at the hairdresser. Who is your hair inspiration?

My fashion Crush!

2010-10-13T09:14:00.006+02:00

Like most teenage girls of the ‘90s I loved Dawson's Creek. Although to be honest I could not stand the leads Dawson or Joey. I did however love Pacey and the gorgeous femme fatale Jen.

Back then I never paid much attention to Katie Holmes. It was only when she started dating one of my least favourite actors and suddenly blossomed into a fashion forward goddess that I realized my huge girl crush. I love how she does casual boyfriend jeans the one day and total Jackie O glamour the next.

I have also come to realize that for the last 2 almost 3 years I have basically copied most of her hairstyles. Check out my next post for my take on Katie Holmes Hair.

Weekend in Picture!

2010-10-11T19:59:00.013+02:00

Drama, drama, drama is how my weekends started off.
Friday night was date night. So we were going to check out the new Spur (not terribly classy, but a favourite) at the newly renovated Eikestad Mall, and I booked us tickets for Eat, Pray, Love. Before the festivities could start we had to take little Knox for a walk. It was on this walkabout when the unthinkable happened. My fur baby (okay toddler) was attacked. For PR purposes we decided to stick with the story that it was a scary looking Rottweiler when in fact it was a teeny tiny little sausage dog. The evil little dog left 3 teeth mark scratches on his pretty little black nose. Knox didn’t seem fazed at all and just kept on walking. I on the other hand was close to tears and near having to breathe in a paper bag. Quick emergency trip to the vet and all’s well. Unfortunately it will probably leave a mark. So we had to skip the Spur and rushed to make it in time for Eat, Pray, Love.

Quote honestly I was not that impressed. (Okay I have to keep in mind that after the ‘attack’ I was probably not in the most relaxed frame of mind and the movie theatre was like 40 degrees) but it felt a little too long and I struggled to stay awake in the middle part somewhere. Maybe if I watch it again in the comfort of my own home...

Ouch!

Cafe Sofia has the best cocktails a great atmosphere....

...and awesome view.

You know you are entering a new phase in your life when birthday drinks finish at 5pm so you can still have ice cream and be home before dark.

You can see from the fake smile that I was not impressed with the ice cream thief.

Sunday was laundry day. Luckily Knox’s load wasn’t too heavy.

Friday is my day!

2010-10-07T22:06:00.009+02:00

The other day I was walking around Spar doing a bit of weekend grocery shopping when these tiny Coke bottle Salt and Pepper pots caught my eye. I immediately pictured them on my next garden party table or at a picnic. The boyfriend was less impress.
So, they are either going to be fabulously retro looking or horribly kitch. Time will tell.

Happy Friday everyone!

Hey, it's ok the Glamour way!

2010-10-06T10:47:00.003+02:00

As mentioned in previous posts I’m a huge Glamour Magazine fan and the first’s thing I read is their monthly *Hey, it’s OK...

...To add a footnote to the wedding RSVP explaining why you don’t have a ‘plus one’
...To still call them ‘mommy’ or ‘daddy’ when you want something.
...To despise a name because of some girl who tortured you way back.
...To pay twice as much for the cool drink in the little old-fashioned bottle.
...To strut around in heels, with a sneaky pair of flats in your bag, just in case.
-Glamour Magazine-

The Love and Stuff list *Hey, it’s Okay...

...To hide people on Facebook. Not everyone has the personality to social network.
...To be a tad scared of summer. Bikini’s are frightening things.
...To eat yet another cupcake after just stressing about putting on a bathing suit. Remember you don’t want the last thought to go through your head as the bus is about to hit you to be “Damn, I wish I had that cupcake!”
...To sound like your mother when you say “There’s just not enough time in the day” The women has a point.
...To bitch and moan about how time flies, while excitedly marking off yet another day on your countdown to December holidays.
-Love and Stuff-

Living in Knoxville!

2010-10-03T20:34:00.004+02:00

I know it can be terribly annoying having to listen to a friend go on and on about her baby or new puppy. Yes, it was cute for the first 5 minutes but now you are just killing me.

Having recently joined the club of ‘bore you to death with my puppy stories’ I thought it only appropriate to give you guys a Knox update. (sorry)

Thing is you have to give constant updates to everyone cause the old cliché of “they grow up so fast” is SO true. If I skip one week of taking pics I missed an entire phase. It’s quite scary.
So where Knox used to be just another cute adorable little fur ball the little guy has now developed quite the personality making him a dog like none other...
-He makes the cutest little pig grunting noises when you scratch his head. And he is terribly ticklish in the tummy area.
-Cars are still his Kryptonite, getting sick during most drives longer than an hour.
-He is also fast outgrowing our cars (even though no small car can handle as much luggage as my Paris the Yaris). I think the boyfriends dream Toyota bakkie is now not just a luxury but a necessity.
-With the increase in recent crime in our fair neighbourhood he has proven himself quite the guard dog. If only the thieves knew he would most probably just lick them to death.
-He had his first puppy obedience class last Thursday. Even though he started out in true Marley style trying to take a swim in the water fountain and making a poo the size of a mountain, he soon realized it was time to get down to business. He was such a star and didn’t even back down when the naughty Alsatian puppy tried to pin him down. Although that did mean walking away with a tiny war wound on his right ear, but chicks dig scars so it’s all good.

Loves to pose for pics.

Perfecting the puppy eyes look.

It's October everybody!

2010-10-01T12:55:00.003+02:00

And so the month that is all about me (at least in my mind) is all over. Bye-bye birthday celebrations, hello just another year older.
September was such a jam packed blur, and October seems to be looking even worst. Basically every weekend is filled up to the brim with family gatherings, birthday parties, a wedding and a cycling race.

Here’s what you can look forward to in the month of October:

Rocking the Daisies from the 8 till 10 October!
October Fest at Paulaner Brauhaus in the V&A Waterfront from 8 till 31 October!
Kamers vol Geskenke in Somerset West from 27 till 31 October (I am so there)!
*And although we as South African’s don’t really do Halloween on 31 October, I did have two kiddies knocking on my door trick or treating last year. I was quite embarrassed having to tell them there’s not a sweetie in sight. This year I will be prepared.

Then on the 8th of October the boyfriend will be receiving the keys for the shop and they will start the Shop fitting.

Boost Surf Shop will open in November! After months of planning, lots and lots of stress and sleepless nights I can’t believe it’s finally happening! Here’s wishing the boyfriend lots of luck and happiness living the dream.
Follow Boost Surf Shop Stellenbosch on Facebook or Twitter @BoostSurfShop!

The war of the wall!

2010-09-30T09:45:00.007+02:00

I think I might be entering my Susie Homemaker phase again.

Instead of buying clothes (as per usual) I’m planning on buying the Boardmans dinner plates I saw in the new Sarie Bruid. I am also planning on finally putting up the photographs for our photo wall this weekend. It’s been lying around the house for ages now; it’s definitely time for them to go up. We actually did spend a whole afternoon a while back trying to mount them, but the more the boyfriend hammered in the nail the more wall plaster came tumbling down. So we decided to try double sided tape. That night as I was settling in for the Sunday night Mnet movie I heard a weird noise and had to duck as my picture wall above the couch came tumbling down missing my head my cm.
My mom gave me the name of double sided tape guaranteed strong enough to hold even me up against the wall if need be.

So it’s time for round two.

Love the hints of pink and purple.

*Eek, not sure where I got these from. If they are your pics please give me a shout so I can credit you!*

My fashion Crush!

2010-09-29T13:30:00.004+02:00

I absolute love getting dressed up for a night out (like most girls do) but to be quite honest I’m more casual street style than Carrie Bradshaw.
I know, nothing beats that feeling of putting on a gorgeous pair of high heels and a skin tight dress, but if I had to choose I’d almost always go for the jeans and flats. That’s why I just adore how fabulously cool Michelle Williams pulls of casual.